“Be attentive to the roles by which you live – and choose them well. For ultimately, you will become whatever you identify yourself to be.” -David Charles Manners

From the day I was born I was gifted with names/labels/roles that I have worn proudly throughout my life. These names/labels/roles provide a definition of who I am. I am a female, daughter, sister, graduate, woman, sister, adult, aunt, wife, educator, friend, and mom (my favourite!). I have been truly lucky in my life to carry those labels because attached to them are so many relationships with family, friends, and colleagues, that have made my life rich and entertaining.

Today is my 5 year ‘diagnosis anniversary.’ It marks the day when I received the Parkinson’s Disease label. The day that I was labeled as a patient with an illness, disability, and chronic disease. But unlike my other labels, this one does not define who I am – and I will not let it. But I will acknowledge, that like all other labels, there is a relationship that exists between me and PD. It is certainly not my friend, but I need to get along with it so that it doesn’t take control over my other important and valued roles.

Being labeled with a ‘disease’ is complicated and worthy of a future post. But today, this is all the time I will give to PD. I’ve got better things to do! Off to walk with my dog in the morning sun.